By Bob Peterson, August 5,
2002
Almost
every day, I get e-mail from someone who, whether they know it or not, is
experiencing awareness during sleep paralysis (ASP). Usually I give them a brief explanation of what’s happening, but
I decided it’s time to write it down in an article that more people can benefit
from. I’ve studied and experienced
multiple ASPs and OBEs, so I’m speaking from experience.
What is sleep paralysis?
Sleep Paralysis is a normal, natural bodily function that causes our physical bodies to be paralyzed during sleep. Its purpose is to prevent us from hurting ourselves when we’re dreaming. It’s supposed to happen every time we sleep and it usually sets in long before we start dreaming. When it’s not working properly, we have serious problems like sleepwalking where people get hurt. Normally, we are not conscious when sleep paralysis sets in, so most people don’t even know it exists. However, once in a while, someone becomes conscious during that period, and that’s when it becomes Awareness during Sleep Paralysis, or ASP. To the best of my knowledge, this happens more often upon waking up. Basically, your mind wakes up before your body does. Eventually, your body catches up to your mind and wakes up too.
When
someone becomes conscious and aware of their sleep paralysis state, they usually
don’t know what’s happening to them.
Naturally, because they’re conscious, they try to move, but can’t. When they find out they can’t move, they start
to become agitated, distressed, afraid and may even panic. They’re stuck between reality and the
hallucinated world of dreams and can’t seem to get to either place. Often, they
struggle and thrash against the paralysis, trying to get free, but that rarely
helps.
To
make matters worse, fears can easily become manifest as very realistic
hallucinations in the ASP state.
Therefore, people commonly see monsters, demons, witches, or other unsavory
creatures attacking them. It is so
common for people to see old hags trying to sit on them that they coined the
word “hagging” to describe it. Often
they seem to wake up “just in the nick of time before the monsters get them,”
when in reality the fear-induced shot of adrenaline breaks them out of the paralysis. For the most part, these creatures are
hallucinations that can be disregarded, but I realize that’s easier said than
done.
Most
of the time, ASP sufferers struggle to regain control of their body and
eventually win. Sometimes, however, a
person may seem to wake up, only to discover that they’re really still asleep
and dreaming that they woke up. We call
this phenomenon “false awakenings.”
Sometimes a person can have several false awakenings in a row, leading
them to become frustrated that they can’t wake up, or worse, terrified they may
never wake up again. ASP sufferers are
often reluctant to discuss their experiences because they’re afraid that people
will think they’re crazy. Many people
have keep this their little secret all their lives.
How common is ASP?
Actually,
ASP is quite common and nothing to be afraid of or ashamed of. It happens to thousands or maybe even
millions of people every day, but I don’t have any statistics to back that
up. I get e-mails about ASP almost
every day, though, so you’re not alone.
Usually
when people learn about ASP and what it is, their fears lessen. When their fears lessen, they tend to see fewer
monsters. Therefore, your best advice
is to not panic, remain calm, realize that you’re safe, and this is a natural
thing your physical body does. Then, if
you want, explore the state.
Usually,
you just have to wait for it to wear off.
It’s thought that sleep paralysis has something to do with the chemistry
of the brain, and you’ll automatically break out of it when your chemicals
stabilize. Until then, all you can do
is wait for it to end, or use it as a jumping board for the OBE state. As I said before, extreme emotion like panic
or anger will sometimes cause a change in brain chemistry, and that may break
you out of the ASP state. Once you
learn to control it, I’m hoping you’ll want to explore rather than end it.
In
my experience, in the ASP state, you are out of your physical body and inside
your energy body, but usually you’re stuck to the body and unable to move. So on the one hand, you’re out of your body,
but on the other hand, you’re unable to go anywhere or do anything; a truly
frustrating experience. Struggling
against the paralysis is often futile, and if you do win, you’ll return to your
physical body instead of leaving it, which is frustrating if OBEs are your goal.
Believe
it or not, it took me twenty years of trying before I learned the secret
of how to turn ASP into OBE. Before I
learned the secret, it was easier for me to induce an out-of-body experience
from a fully waking state than it was from the ASP state. The secret lies primarily in knowing what’s
really happening, so here it is: In my
experience, in the ASP state, your consciousness is associated with your energy
body, not your astral body, and therein lies the problem. Your energy body is closely associated with
your physical body, and therefore prying on it and trying to dislodge it is
useless. That won’t happen until you’re
dead, or close to it. The secret is,
you need to transfer your consciousness from your energy body to your astral
body. How do you do that? First, close your eyes and keep them closed. Second, try to push forward with your
consciousness and imagine that your consciousness is moving forward. Even though you may not feel any movement,
your consciousness will move forward in your astral body. If you have serious doubts that it is
working and open your eyes prematurely, your awareness will zip like a ball on
a rubber band back into your energy body.
Instead, keep your eyes closed and have faith that your consciousness is
moving forward. Keep pushing forward
with your consciousness as hard as you can, just like walking underwater, until
you are about fifteen feet (five meters) away from your body. Of course, since your eyes are closed, you
can only approximate how far this is, so don’t obsess on the distance, just take
a best guess. Once you are safely
fifteen feet away from your body, you may open your eyes, and you will be in
your astral body and free to roam.